Unicorps Retreat With Reid Mihalko
With Reid Mihalko
March 7 - 11, 2025
Join the Unicorps Retreat March 7th – 11th
Become one of the greatest Unicorns on Earth by taking your threesome midwifing skills to the next level! 
Are you a natural nurturer, a guide for folks looking to explore and expand their sexuality? Do you identify as a Unicorn, or -more specifically- a “threesome midwife”? Do you feel called to help couples and individuals explore intimacy, navigate boundaries, and discover the transformative and empowering vulnerability inherent in a ménage à trois? This retreat is designed for you — the brave, compassionate souls who love supporting couples and individuals in unlocking their fantasies and exploring group sexual dynamics without fear or shame.
A Unicorn-Only Sanctuary
This is a Unicorn-Only retreat, NOT a couples retreat for those looking to hunt Unicorns.
Also, this retreat isn’t just a workshop; it’s a sanctuary—a place where you can rest, reflect, revel, and remember that you’re not alone in this journey.
If you happen to be two Unicorns who also happen to be a couple, then we ask that only one of you attend this retreat, and that the other attends the next retreat. If you’re a Unicorn, then you most likely understand why we’re designing the retreat this way. If you have questions, email Reid@ReidAboutSex.comand we’ll get back to you ASAP.
Why This Retreat?
Being a Unicorn is an act of courage, compassion, and love. But even Unicorns need a place to recharge and hone our skills. Let this retreat be your space to celebrate the beauty of what you do while prioritizing your well-being. And let this retreat be your opportunity to take your Unicorn skills to the next level.
Over five transformative days and four expansive nights in New Orleans, we will dive deep into strategies for supporting couples and individuals in uncovering their fantasies and communicating their desires with respect and confidence. We’ll also explore how to set healthy boundaries, avoid burnout, and embrace the joy that comes from helping people realize their threesome fantasies. Together, we’ll unlock more of the magic inherent in living and loving without shame, answering our Unicorn callings so that you leave feeling restored, validated, and ready to carry this sacred work forward.
As Unicorns, you play a vital role in midwifing couples and individuals into deeper intimacy and guiding them through emotionally vulnerable terrain. It’s a privilege to hold space for these transformative experiences and to witness people stepping bravely into courage, authenticity, and pleasure. Supporting others as they navigate their fears, boundaries, traumas, and desires requires strength, resilience, and a deep well of self-care.
But let’s not sugarcoat it—this work can sometimes be a heavy emotional burden. Too often, those who hold space for others forget to nourish themselves. Without support, the sparkles and rainbows that make this work magical can fade, leaving us feeling drained, overextended, or even shut down. And then there are those moments when a hopeful connection derails into a trainwreck of effort and emotional cleanup—who holds space for the space holders?
The Unicorn Retreat is your opportunity to have space held for YOU. It’s your opportunity to recharge, connect with like-minded individuals, hone your skills, and revel in the joy of being among others who understand (and have experienced) this sacred, transformative work. Together, we’ll honor the unique challenges and profound privileges of being Unicorns while learning to sustain our magic and our joy.
This immersive retreat is about more than skill-building — it’s a chance to:
- Unicorn Smarter, Not Harder: Learn advanced emotional and communication techniques to make midwifing couples and individuals easier, more fun, and MORE pleasurable and mind-blowing for all involved — yourself included! We’ll explore ways to approach our sacred work with more ease, creativity, and joy.
- Avoid Pitfalls and Trainwrecks: Gain insights into recognizing red flags, understanding when it’s best to call the threesome off or ask for a redo, and how you can masterfully navigate tricky scenarios with confidence and care.
- Recharge, Reconnect, and Revel: Take time to blow off steam, let your hair down, and drink deep from the joy-filled chalice filled by a community that truly gets you and wants you to be 100% your full, self-expressed, unbridled Unicorn self!
What You’ll Experience
- Deep Dive Workshops: Hone your emotional and conversation skills in guiding couples and individuals through vulnerable conversations, boundary negotiations, and creating safe, shame-free spaces for intimacy exploration.
- Unicorn Share & Swap Time: Share & swap your best threesome hands-on skills! Take your pleasuring two people at once skills to the next level. Master better ways of keeping everyone engaged and feeling included (which also includes YOU getting better at receiving from multiple people at the same time, BTW)!
- Self-Care Mastery: Discover powerful strategies to balance your own needs while supporting others, ensuring your emotional reserves stay full.
- Community Connection: Share stories, challenges, and triumphs with a community of fellow Unicorns who understand your journey as a threesome midwife and are here to celebrate and uplift you.
- Time to Rest, Reflect, and Frolic: Enjoy serene surroundings, nourishing meals, moments of quiet reflection, as well as time to laugh, dance, scream, shout, and get your freak on with fellow Unicorns! Come unleash MORE of your unique Unicorn’ness and be MORE yourself.
An Honor and a Privilege
Midwifing couples and individuals through the uncharted waters of threesome-focused intimacy is sacred work. You are the steady hands guiding them as they face fears, transcend shame, and embrace their most authentic selves. You are the pragmatic wisdom and sober knowing advising them to make choices that honor their values and relationship agreements instead of bowing to peer pressure to please a partner or getting so intoxicated by lust that they make choices they’ll regret.
This retreat celebrates the courage it takes to walk beside others on this journey and the immense impact you have on their lives. Together, we’ll explore how to honor this privilege while protecting our own hearts and spirits.
Join Us
If you feel the call to deepen your Unicorn skills, care for your emotional well-being, and connect with a community of like-minded souls, this retreat is for you. Let’s create a space where we can learn, share, and grow — together.
Step into this journey of connection, courage, and care. As Unicorns, you deserve a space to rest, reflect, and recharge while celebrating the vital work you do. Let’s honor ourselves and our Unicorn natures as we continue to honor and guide others.
TENTATIVE RETREAT SCHEDULE
Here is a sketch of what to expect during our time together… Please note: Schedules for Arrival and Departure Days differ from Days 2, 3 and 4 of the retreat.
Day 1: March 7th — Afternoon Arrival, Welcome Dinner & Opening Circle
Afternoon
• 3:00 PM – 5:00 PM: Arrival & Check-in
Settle in, meet your fellow Unicorns, and take a moment to ground yourself.
Evening
• 5:30 PM – Welcome Dinner
Let’s share meal to nourish ourselves and connect!
Let’s share meal to nourish ourselves and connect!
• 8:00 PM – Opening Circle: Introductions, Setting Intentions & Agreements
The organizers (Reid & Vera) lead us in introducing the team & fellow Unicorns, and in co-creating a safe/brave, supportive container. We will set up our consent frameworks, agreements, and clear communication practices for our 5 day adventure together.
The organizers (Reid & Vera) lead us in introducing the team & fellow Unicorns, and in co-creating a safe/brave, supportive container. We will set up our consent frameworks, agreements, and clear communication practices for our 5 day adventure together.
• 9:30 PM – “The Art of Being a Unicorn”
Playful discussion: What does it mean to identify/embody the role of Unicorn for yourself, in relationships, communities, and play spaces? How can we thrive as empowered, aware, and authentic Unicorns?
• 11pm – Intention Setting and Unicorn Latihan
The evening will end with intention setting and Latihan, the blindfolded, group spiritual dance that originates in Indonesian’s Subud community.
• Midnight Snack!! – Feeling peckish? Enjoy grilled cheese sandwiches and other snacks before bedtime or late night play time!
• Late Night Shenanigans – It’s the first night and we’ll encourage you to get some sleep, but the play space will be open for Unicorns with pre-existing relationships and/or excellent negotiation skills to frolic as needed in order to get some sleep.
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Days 2, 3, and 4: Connection, Communication, Craft, Care, Consideration, and Community
As we embark on exploring our Unicorn natures, we’ll spend our time together focusing on deepening connection, communicating clearly, honing our craft as Unicorns, demonstrating care and consideration for one another, and building and strengthening a community that will nourish us.
For those of you who find comfort in knowing the daily schedule, our mornings/afternoons/evenings together have been loosely sketched out to look something like this…
Morning
• 8:00 AM – Coffee & Tea & Toast are ready for anyone who needs it!
• 9:00 AM – Morning Movement, Meditation, Stretching & Breathwork
Gentle breathwork, grounding, intention setting, and connecting to the body — a touch of movement & magic to start the day.
Gentle breathwork, grounding, intention setting, and connecting to the body — a touch of movement & magic to start the day.
• 10:00 AM-Noon – Morning Session
Afternoon
• 12:00 PM – Brunch
Let’s share a meal together to connect and nourish ourselves
• 1:30-5 PM – Afternoon Sessions
• 5:00 PM – Solo or Group Reflection & Integration
Time
Time
Journal, connect with others, or take a nap—because integration matters.
Evening
• 6:00 PM – Dinner out in New Orleans!
Grab a group or, if you need some alone time, head out solo to enjoy all the culinary delights that New Orleans has to offer you…
• 9:00 PM-Midnite – Evening Play Lab: “Unicorn Vs Unicorn Games”
An evening of fun and interactive sessions and games designed for Unicorns to practice and hone our skills, get clarity on our strengths and weaknesses, remove shame and reveal desires, while also being bold enough to ask for what we want…
An evening of fun and interactive sessions and games designed for Unicorns to practice and hone our skills, get clarity on our strengths and weaknesses, remove shame and reveal desires, while also being bold enough to ask for what we want…
• Midnight Snack!!
Feeling peckish before bed? Need a snack to keep frolicking into the wee hours? Enjoy grilled cheese sandwiches and other snacks before bedtime or catching your 2nd wind!
• Late Night Shenanigans
• Late Night Shenanigans
The play space will be open for Unicorns to frolic and tucker themselves out in order to get some sleep.
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Day 5: March 11th — Closure, Good Byes, and Departures
Morning
• 8:00 AM – Coffee & Tea & Toast are ready for anyone who needs it!
• 9:00 AM – Morning Meditation, Stretch & Breath work
• 10:00 AM-Noon – Closing Ceremonies
Together, we will bring our epic Unicorn adventure in for a landing, divine next steps we can take to care of our selves and live in to our best Unicorn lives, share appreciations, celebrate our triumphs, and also hold and witness one another in our struggles and growth edges as we prepare to re-enter the “default world.”
Afternoon
• 12:00 PM – Farewell Brunch
Share a last bite with your new Unicorn friends before we have to leave.
• 1 PM – Pack up and Final Goodbyes
• 2 PM – Unicorns leave. Support Team resets the space.
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March 7 – 11, 2025
Book now and get 20% off listed prices.
DATE AND TIME DETAILS: Date: March 7-11th Arrival on the 7th and departure on the 11th.
LOCATION: New Orleans
ADDRESS: 1025 Bienville Street, New Orleans, LA, USA
ADDRESS: 1025 Bienville Street, New Orleans, LA, USA
• Bienville Private Room – $4000.00
• Shared Room – Shared Queen Bed (assigned with someone you probably won’t know) – $1200.00
• Shared Room – Shared Full Bed (pick this option if you know you’re coming with a friend and will share the bed with them!) – $1,100.00
Register Now
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
LOGISTICS & DETAILS
When is the retreat happening?
March 7th thru 11th, 2025
Where will the retreat take place?
1025 Bienville St, New Orleans, LA 70112
When you arrive on site, message the number you’ll receive in your retreat info packet after you register. We’ll be sure to check you in and show you to your room.
What airport should I fly into?
Fly into the Louis Armstrong New Orleans International Airport – airport code MSY.
How do I get to the retreat venue?
The venue is located in New Orleans’ French Quarter, 15.5 miles from the airport. We suggest getting a Lyft, Uber, or taxi to the venue.
What time does check-in happen? And when does the retreat officially start?
Arrival and Check-in for the Unicorps Retreat begins at 3pm and runs to 5pm on March 7th.
Our retreat welcome dinner begins at 5:30pm. It’s not mandatory, but you don’t want to miss it!
The retreat officially kicks-off at 8pm with the Opening Circle, which is mandatory. Please plan your travel to be settled in and join us for the Opening Circle.
When does the retreat officially end?
The retreat will end on March 11th with Closing Ceremonies from 10 AM to Noon, followed by our final, Farewell Brunch from Noon to 1:30 PM.
2 PM is officially check-out time.
All attendees must depart from the venue by 2pm on March 11th so the Support Team can begin resetting the venue.
Can I arrive to the venue early? Can I stay on longer after the retreat?
It’s New Orleans! Anything is possible. We recommend registering for the retreat first and securing your spot before we sell out. After your registration is complete, check your inbox for your confirmation email so you can reach out to our venue & booking host, French Quarter Retreats, to discuss adding extra days to your trip. French Quarter Retreats has plenty of additional options available and is waiting to serve you.
How many participants will be there and who is welcome to attend?
We are expecting a diverse group of 16 to 24 adults spanning the spectrum of gender and sexual orientations, relationship configurations, and levels of Unicorn experience.
What we will all have in common is that we identify as Unicorns and love helping couples and individuals navigate and explore their desires and group sexual dynamics successfully. And the organizers hope YOU add your unique magic to the mix by joining us in New Orleans! 
I am in a relationship with another Unicorn. Can we both attend the retreat?
Maybe. But we need to talk.
This retreat has been designed as a Unicorn-Only retreat. It is NOT a couples retreat.
And while it’s possible to have two lucky Unicorns find one another and become a couple of Unicorns, it might be more powerful for the both of you (and the retreat) if one of you attends this retreat and the other attends the next time.
If this situation applies to you or if you’re unsure if it does, and the both of you would like to attend this retreat at the same time, we recommend that you both register to save your seats, and then email Reid at Reid@ReidAboutSex.com and request a call. We are more than happy to jump on a call, meet you both, and see what makes the most sense.
Sorry but not sorry to be so guarded and cautious about our sacred Unicorn time together isn’t usurped by Unicorn hunters disguised as Unicorns or unnecessary couple’s drama.
If you are partnered to a Unicorn and know that you’re not a Unicorn in the way they truly are, then we appreciate you sending them to us and you staying behind. We promise to treat them like the magical creature they are and send them back to you with their Unicorn tanks filled up!
I will not be 21 years old by the time the retreat starts. Can I still attend?
Due to the adult nature and content of this retreat, all attendees must be 21 or over at the start of the retreat.
What does my retreat tuition include?
Your retreat tuition includes the following:
- Access to all official Unicorps retreat classes, events, and field trips
- Dinner on arrival night
- Coffee, tea and toast each morning for early risers
- Brunch each of the 4 days
- Midnight snack every night for the frolic all nighters
- Over 6 and a half hours of workshops and skills sharing each day
- Free time each day to chillax or explore New Orleans
- A shared queen bed in a shared room with other Unicorns
You may also upgrade your room and sleeping arrangements for an additional fee (limited availability).
What is the cost of this retreat?
The price for this 5-day/4-night retreat in the French Quarter is $1200 per person.
Is dinner included?
Dinner on arrival night is included. On other nights, since New Orleans is filled with hundreds of delicious, world class restaurants, participants are free to head out into the city on whatever culinary adventure strikes their fancy, or take advantage of the venue’s kitchen to cook their own meal or order in. Do what works best for your budget and cravings, and remember to do your dishes! We will have some refrigerator space reserved for participants should they need it.
What dietary restrictions can be accommodated?
Everyone is invited to submit any specific dietary restrictions during registration. French Quarter Retreats will do their best to coordinate with our caterer to meet your needs as best we can. If you have dietary needs we cannot meet, we will work with you to make sure you have some refrigeration space set aside so you can keep what you need nearby and fresh.
Are their payment plans and scholarships available?
Because this is our first time running this retreat with French Quarter Retreats, we will not be offering scholarships at this time. French Quarter Retreats does have a payment plan option available that you can choose when registering.
How will emotional and physical safety be prioritized and what support is available for attendees during emotionally heavy moments?
Since this is a retreat for Unicorns by Unicorns who know what it’s like to grown up in and navigate a mostly sex-negative world filled with folks who aren’t Unicorns, we have put in place several considerations to help stack the deck in favor of the attendees’ emotional and physical safety…
- The Intake Form: After registering, every attendee will have to fill out a brief intake form that the organizers will review to ensure that this retreat is a good fit for everyone who is coming and that the adult nature and explicit content we will be diving into during the retreat is not going to be “too much too soon”.
- The Opening Circle: Mandatory attendance at the Opening Circle on Arrival Day required to attend the retreat. The Opening Circle is where we will create a safer, braver retreat space for our community journey together. It is where the organizers will go over the agreements and community guidelines for the retreat, emphasizing how we will navigate consent and privacy, as well as how we will support one another in building trust as well as repairing trust and being accountable to one another should something transpire that touches upon past traumas or could have been done better. The Opening Circle will also include ice breaking exercises and games to give the group an opportunity to practice and anchor these skills and concepts.
- The Support Team: Through the entire retreat, the organizers and support team with be available for support, space holding, answering questions, and following up with attendees and what they need. Whether it’s cheering someone on about a breakthrough they just had, giving compassionate witnessing as feelings bubble up, or helping an attendee process how they’d like to deal with a consent accident, a learning curve mistake, or a downright violation, the organizers and support team will be available to help.
What can attendees expect to experience during the retreat?
Read the event copy for this retreat again if you’re still unclear. Maybe it sounds too good to be true and that’s why you’re asking? We understand. As far as we know, there has never been a 5-day/4-night gathering designed specifically for a group of 16 to 24 Unicorns! You know what this means? Expect to experience magic during this retreat!
How structured or flexible is the schedule?
Like all of Reid Mihalko’s events, we trust you to take care of yourself and opt in or out as you need. The only thing that’s mandatory at this retreat is to attend the Opening Circle and follow the retreat rules and agreements. Attend what feels good to you, opt out of what doesn’t, and you are encouraged to change your mind.
What should attendees bring with them?
Bring whatever you need to make the most of 5-days and 4-nights in New Orleans surrounded by a herd of Unicorns just like YOU!
After you register, you will receive more specific “welcome to the retreat” information on recommended things to pack, what field trips we have planned, dress up theme nights we have planned, what safer sex supplies and toys to consider packing, etc.
Basically, if you’ve read this far into the FAQ, it’s probably time to register so we can send you the welcome packet! 😉
What’s the process for registering?
Click HERE – https://ReidAboutSex.com/register-for-the-unicorps-retreat – to register! Just follow the obvious next steps… Excited that you’ll be joining us!
Are there cancellation policies or refund deadlines?
Yes. Our venue & booking host, the amazing folks at French Quarter Retreats, are in charge of registrations as well as the cancellation and refund policies, and those can be found clearly listed on their Terms and Conditions page HERE – https://www.FrenchQuarterRetreats.com/tac
Will there be opportunities to connect with other attendees before the retreat?
Once you’ve register and filled out your intake form, the organizers will invite you to join a WhatsApp group created specifically for this retreat. No pressure to join, but we encourage it. Why? Because you’ll be able to start connecting with your follow, like-minded Unicorns before the retreat!
How accessible is the retreat venue (e.g., mobility accommodations)?
The venue is a historic building in New Orleans’ French Quarter where the retreat space and bedrooms all exist on the 2nd floor accessible only by stairs. (FYI, there is an elevator in the building but it’s beyond repair according to the land lord).
There are approximately 42 stairs up to the second floor.
If you have specific asks or inquiries regrind accessibility, please email Reid@ReidAboutSex.com with them so we can brainstorm!
What makes this retreat unique compared to other similar events?
As far as we know, there are no similar events that compare to the Join the Unicorps Retreat. We love our Lifestyle friends who prize Unicorns, but that’s not the same thing that we are co-creating with YOU and your Unicorn siblings.
About the Leader
Reid Mihalko
ABOUT REID MIHALKO: As seen on NETFLIX' "Chelsea Does..." alongside Chelsea Handler, Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual […]
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